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Sex Coaching
Sex Coaching
Sex Coaching lets you explore, embrace, and express your true sexuality with confidence and authenticity. It’s an effective program that helps you reconnect with desire, pleasure, and emotional safety, alone or with a partner.
Sex can feel complicated. From feeling confident in your skin, to feeling welcomed and seen for what you really desire, to understanding better your fantasies and kinks. As most people struggle with sexual satisfaction, especially within the younger generations, sex coaches and sexologists work with clients to overcome difficulties and find viable solutions.
Meet Your Coach
Pietro Mingotti
Pietro is the founder of Trans-Human Coaching (see the full bio here) and has been a prominent figure in the Kinky & BDSM lifestyle for over 17 years.
While having retired from the over-commercialized kink scene, he is chief editor for several sexuality websites, and is a sexuality coach with whom to talk openly and with no taboos.
With an education encompassing on-the-field experience to research in exercise bio-mechanics and nutrition, his goal is to create plans tailored to reach the coachee’s goal, while also empowering the athlete’s mindset require to reach those goals, and the ones of the future.
Professional Mental Coach
Pietro is a certified Professional Mental Coach with credential issued by Three Dimensional Coaching® Academy
18+ years experience in the kink scene
He is the main editor of Old Guard Leathermen and the Lust Blog, and he’s been holding worshops and lectures on positive sexuality and BDSM since over 18 years.
Master Degree in Mental Training
Pietro has successfully completed the Master Degree in Mental Training with Gabriele Sol.
“We are more than just bodies, and we are more than just brains. We need both.
Sexuality is one of the most beautiful and natural way to deeply connect together, and we don’t need any enhancement or trend to follow. We just need the bravery to be our true, unapologetic selves.”
Should you consider sex coaching?
Sexual dissatisfaction rarely comes from lack of attraction or desire; it comes from unspoken fears, secret sexual identities, shame, habits, or the impossibility to truly connect with another human being.
If you recognize yourself in any of these, coaching will help you move from discomfort to freedom, and from fear to pleasure.
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Desire feels inconsistent or absent
I love my partner but the spark is gone, or I’m single and my libido seems sleeping; I want to feel desire again, but I don’t know how.
My sexuality is a taboo
The topic feels uncomfortable or leads to conflict with my partner. I’m afraid to reveal my desires to others and myself, but I’m feeling crushed,
Performance anxiety or self-judgment
I overthink, compare, or freeze in intimate moments or even before having a chance to start them; pleasure feels replaced by pressure.
Mismatched needs or fantasies
In my relationship one of us wants more intensity, novelty, or exploration; the other feels overwhelmed or inadequate.
I live strong role shaming
My body speaks an image, and that image speaks a role. My sexual identity is secretly diverse from what my image looks like, and I’m crushed between wanting to be myself, and meeting other’s expectations and validation.
Curiosity about kink or alternative dynamics
I feel drawn to certain desires or relationship models but need to explore them safely, ethically, and without shame, and I don’t know how or whom to talk about it with,
Sex is / has become mechanical
I am physically together with the partner, but emotionally absent; sex and dates feels like a routine rather than a language of affection and true appreciation.
Unresolved trauma or boundaries
Past experiences still influence how I trust, touch, or surrender; I want to heal and reclaim my body.
I feel disconnected from my erotic self
Everybody talk about sex, and I feel like I am not that agile. I want to rediscover pleasure, confidence, and self-expression; not just for sex, but for life itself.
Science Backed Sex Coaching
Modern research confirms that sexual satisfaction and emotional intimacy are learnable skills, not fixed traits.
When approached consciously, both individuals and couples can rewire patterns of shame, avoidance, and miscommunication.
Read more: Journal of Sex Research on PubMed
- Most couples experience desire discrepancies at some point, but communication-based interventions consistently restore satisfaction and closeness.
Read the research: Basson – Sexual Desire and Couple Communication - Mindfulness and body awareness reduce sexual anxiety and performance stress, increasing arousal and satisfaction.
Read the research: NIH – Mindfulness and Sexual Function - Coaching and psycho-educational programs improve sexual communication, consent, and empathy within relationships.
Read the research: PMC – Effects of Intimacy Coaching on Relationship Quality - Exploration of erotic diversity (including kink and non-traditional practices) correlates with higher relationship satisfaction when approached with consent and emotional literacy.
Read the research: Journal of Sex Research – Consensual Kink and Well-Being
How will Sex & Intimacy Coaching help you
Traditional sex advice focuses on techniques or performance.
THC® Sex, Kink & Intimacy Coaching is different because it addresses the psychological, emotional, and relational systems behind sexuality, helping you build confidence and authenticity from within.
Creating a Safe Space for Exploration
Reconnecting Mind and Body
Bridging Desire and Communication
Integrating Kink and Identity
Healing and Reclaiming Pleasure
Why Choosing Sexuality Coaching
Benefits of Sex Coaching for Men and Women
Renewed desire and vitality
Open + honest communication
Greater emotional intimacy
Strong Self confidence
Exploration without fear
Healing and self-acceptance
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Book your 60 minutes session.
Please feel free to contact me and schedule a free introductory meeting. You’ll be able to ask me any questions and get practical advice.
